What To Say During Sex - Dirty Phrases (program review)
“My sex life is more passionate now than EVER before… “
Despite being a younger woman in my twenties (and seemingly on top of the world) I have always suffered from a lack of confidence. So I always thought that “dirty talking” was from another world. People in movies knew how to dirty talk. Phone sex operators knew how to do it. Not goody-goody, cookie-baking substitute teachers like me! I was embarrassed to even try it, though my boyfriend was always encouraging me and said that my voice really turned him on.
In case you’re wondering, I never wanted to learn the art of dirty talking as some sort of deterrent, as if I needed to sex up my character in order to keep my boyfriend interested in me. We both just enjoyed the idea of exploring new sexual quirks and talking was always our favorite pastime. So we figured, why not combine our natural love of conversation with some kinky fantasies?
(9.3/10)i was a huge chicken at first…
Oh, but was I nervous! I found myself chickening out the first few times, and felt a little bad since my boyfriend actually did all of the talking while I just listened and blushed. I decided to get some “professional” help in secret so that I could surprise my man with a much more learned vocabulary the next time we tried it. I ordered the Dirty Talking Guide (http://www.dirtytalkingguide.com) which was an educational book on the art of dirty talking.
What I liked about this guide was its intelligence. It didn’t just rehash familiar scenarios or teach me how to “swear”…it actually explained the science of composing an erotic story made up of words and phrases. It focused on the psychology of eroticism and what emotions and thoughts your partner wants to hear the most.
im an erotic hypnotist?!…
As I read further on into the guide I discovered some important points involved in creating the “naughty” conversation. Rules like “start the play” (creating the image), “keep it fresh” (coming up with new ideas) and “stay in school” (learning your partner’s turn ons) were very insightful. Even more enjoyable were chapters on “how to always sound sexy even on a bad night”, “how to turn boring phrases into sexually loaded turn ons” and my favorite, “how to hypnotically implant sexual images into your man’s mind.” Me an erotic hypnotist? Well, I never!
By the time I finished reading the book I was just dying to try some new stuff I learned on my man. I started our foreplay very early on by calling him at work and harassing him over the phone. Even over the phone, I could tell I was making him blush and that he was just aching to come home that night.
putting my skills into practice..
When we finally got home, I made him wait and talked his ear off with dirty talk before we went any further. As you might guess, he was tickled pink! Now three months later, dirty talking is our favorite form of foreplay. He never knew my dirty little secret of using the Dirty Talking Guide. I guess he figured I was a natural.
This is a great guide for women who want to explore their wild side but still feel a little shy. Take a chance and learn how to talk dirty…trust me, no guy you’re with will ever complain!
Reviewed By: Sarah K. Stettler
Sarah is a valued guest reviewer here at ® Review Companion, and we’re very thankful to Sarah for sharing her very cool experience with the Dirty Talking Guide.